Thursday, December 31, 2009

Kannada Film Star Action!


Kannada film superstar Vishnuvardhan died of a heart attack early Wednesday morning at the age of 59. Athough I had never heard of him, it seems that almost everybody in Karnataka loved his films (all 200 of them). So many people adored the actor, that more than 400,000 showed up on the streets of South Bangalore to watch his funeral procession (photo above). Unfortunately, some angry fans unable to get a glimpse of their star turned violent and started pelting buildings and buses with stones and setting cars on fire. As a result, many shops across the city closed for the day, and city buses were diverted or halted altogether. Thankfully, all of this happened miles away from our workplace and apartment in Domlur on the east side of the city, so our only experience was viewed through the TV or internet.

At first I was very confused why anybody would react this way over the death of an actor, especially one that was only well known in his own state. I mean it's not like the President died or anybody was assassinated. This guy had a heart attack. But then Vidya pointed out that movies are huge in India, and often the primary source of escape from reality for most of the people that live here. The top actors are highly revered, often more than the country's key politicians. Plus, it is hard to criticize people for acting irrationally when I experienced similar antics in Columbus after Ohio State's big win over Michigan in 2002 that eventually resulted in a national championship. Perhaps the moral of this story is that wherever we are in the world there's likely to be people that act like idiots!?!!

"Now, I'm getting verklempt! Talk amongst yourselves. I'll give you a topic. The Prince of Tides was about neither a prince nor tides. Discuss."

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Random Photo of the Week

Here's a photo of a typical construction site in Hubli. The wooden scaffolding is another good example of Indian ingenuity and resource utilization. - A

Monday, December 28, 2009

Our Hand at Being Social Entrepreneurs (small S, big E for those in the know)



Developing social entrepreneurs is one of the big buzz words in the development sector. At a recent party we all wondered together at what enterprise isn’t social to some degree. Probably one that takes grants and just puts it in a bank account was Adam’s apt reply! :)

This story has some history....flashback....Adam’s mom had a business selling beaded jewellery, which she then sold off. However, before she sold it I was imparted with some rad skills on how to make cool necklaces and earrings ;)

Back to the present..... These skills were used just as a hobby. I would make random gifts during moments of inspiration. I did bring my toolkit and some beads to India, thinking I’d be hit with inspiration on seeing all the beautiful beads that are available here.

Context....My mom volunteers for a non-profit called the Spastics Society of Karnataka and they were having a Christmas Bazaar, and my mom wondered if I would be interested in having a jewellery stall. I probably would have said no if I was on my own, but Adam was really excited because it would be our attempt at being entrepreneurs. As a teenager he was experienced in accounting and pricing for his mom’s business. So with my mom’s help we were able to source all the supplies were needed from an old market in Bangalore. Buying everything was an experience in itself as most of the names in the US don’t apply here. Needless to say the shopping was highly descriptive with lots of jewellery-making sign language. Plus we learnt a lot in hindsight, like how important it was to have properly drilled beads, ufff! All in all it was really fun, and I can’t wait to go back to the market. BTW, all this transpired just a week before the sale.

Meat of the story.... So Adam, my mom, and I committed ourselves for a couple of hours each evening, designing earrings, and we were able to make about 80 pairs by the end of the week! It was a really fun experience. I also made a few necklaces that sorta added some variety to the table. I priced them really high though, cause I really liked them, and didn’t think it would sell to this target segment. My dad just watched us in amusement probably wondering why I wasn’t working on an economic or development related problem.

The day of the sale was nerve-racking as we had no clue if this experiment would work. We did get a good spot for our stall under the shade of a tree and right at a busy intersection of the sale. To our surprise, our sales where phenomenal! We had to make some earrings on the spot to keep our table stocked, and my mom really sealed the deal by convincing one of her the friends that the most expensive necklace really matched her sari. The day ended with us more than doubling our investment, being able to donate money to the Society, and with lots of encouragement and some orders!!!

We are not sure if this was beginners luck, or if it’s an idea we should pursue further. Ideally, we feel that with the low overheads here (assuming Adam and I are not physically making it ourselves), and the ability to charge higher prices in the west, there might be an opportunity. We could be more ‘socially’ oriented by working with women groups in India. However, we feel the bigger challenge will be marketing the distributing the product in the U.S. or any other country.

For me the best parts were having a creative outlet, and earning money in a very personal way. We were involved in every step of the process, and so you felt this intimate pleasure in then spending the dough; it felt hard earned! 

Here is a link to some of my older as well as latest designs

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Oh Christmas Tree, Oh Christmas Tree



Happy Holidays everybody! Despite temperatures in the 80s and not a snowflake in sight, we have done our best to get in the Christmas spirit. Vidya had a great idea of getting a live tree and decorating it with some LED lights and photos of our close family and friends. We even got some gifts to put under the tree!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year everybody! All the best in 2010!

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Back to the Field!

Greetings from the way back seat of a SUV as we head back to Bisnal village on the final day of our week long field visit in north Karnataka (writing on iPhone... Gotta love modern technology). The purpose of these visits have been to conduct monitoring and evaluation of the Government of India funded community watershed development program. This involves traveling for hours on windy and bumpy roads to relatively remote areas and then doing some surveys and group discussions with local farmers and then walking all over the village and fields to verify that the government claimed projects were actually implemented. The trip has had some successes and we have witnessed several structures that are supposed to prevent soil and water runoff, but it is also apparent that more can be done.

The roads are too bumpy to write more now, so stay tuned for additional info and pictures. -A

Monday, December 14, 2009

National Conference for Forest Solutions


As mentioned in a pervious post, I was invited to attend and speak at the National Conference for Forest Solutions in the state of Himachal Pradesh (HP). The Conference was a 3 day event attended by a few ‘international academic experts’ like myself, as well as members of the Gov’t of India, India Forest Service, HP State Gov’t, and NGOs. Organized by the HP Forest Service, the level of service and accommodations provided to me beyond what I expected, and it is safe to say that the Oberoi Cecil that they put me up in was by far the best hotel that I have ever stayed at. The talk I gave on the potential for global forests to mitigate climate change went quite well, and I actually think that most in the audience understood what I was talking about. After my presentation, I was even interviewed by a journalist from the Tribune, and some of what I said was published in next day’s paper.

Because the event was well attended by a number of government officials and politicians ranging from the Additional Director General of the Ministry of Environment and Forests and the Honorable Minister of Forests for Himachal Pradesh, and I was somehow considered a ‘distinguished guest’, I got to witness a lot of the pomp and circumstance that surrounds the daily routine of being someone important in India (driving around in big white Ambassadors, garlands, bouquets, huge feasts, etc.).

Arguably the most exciting part of being brought into the world of an important person was on the night of the conference banquet when the HP Government – who we must remember was sponsoring the event – requested that the event be dry. Instead of politely adhering to the rules though, those in the Federal Government did what I am sure they did every time something like this came up and discretely moved their party to a private room away from the main dining area. All of us ‘international experts’ were also pooled into that group and urged (i.e., forced) to come with them for some pre-dinner drinks until the Honorable Minister arrived. Of course, we all acted as any respectable guest would and went along with them to room ‘Private Secret 214’ where we were given a nice selection of whisky, wine, and beer along with several tasty appetizers. Within 30 minutes or so, the minister arrived and we had to go out to greet him. This did not mean that the bar at P.S. 214 was closed for the evening though. If we ever needed to go back and ‘get a recharge,’ we simply had to excuse ourselves from the dinner table and kindly announce that we ‘had to use the toilet.’ Thankfully, this was merely a voluntary option for the rest of the night and all of us from abroad made it through dinner without having to use the toilet again ;).

All in all, I had a good time at the conference and am pretty sure that I will not get to relive some of these experiences anytime soon.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Shainaj


When I think about what I love about India, the first thing that pops in my mind are people, especially the women here. I feel like I have learnt the most from them, whether it’s my mom or the lady who provides us with domestic help, dear Ranganayaki. I would like to give them a blog tribute for being such a source of inspiration to me. Here is one story…..

During our stay in Hubli, I met Shainaj, a very smiley security guard, who smiled so much that often she would cover her mouth as her smiles became peals of laughter. Any interaction with us would bring this reaction, especially when we took the time to talk to her. She also had many questions that were rather candid but cute, such as, why did I marry a white man? Don’t they typically leave their wives behind? She had a shyness combined with concern. I had to explain away many stereotypes but it was fun, because I also learnt so much from her thoughts; things that I would never be aware of otherwise.

One day on our walk to work, we were passed by a woman completely covered in a burqa who suddenly grabbed me. I was shocked for a second only to realize it was Shainaj. She was also on her way to work, which was surprising because she was always smartly dressed in her security guard uniform and cap. As we walked to work together, I noticed she had a salwar on underneath, so I asked her about it and if her husband did not mind her wearing a guard uniform. She said that her husband thought she worked at a health clinic, and did not even know that she donned pants and shirts everyday at her job! She didn’t seem too worried that he would find out!

I love her bravado; she broke so many barriers and social norms that can sometimes entrap women in India. She just did what worked best for her within the limits of the norms, and I very much value and cherish that about her. On the day we left Hubli, she came running over to say goodbye, and gave me a little ring she wore hoping that it would remind me for her! If she only knew…she didn’t need to worry at all! - V

Running....

Adam and I have taken to playing tennis and running in Bangalore. The idea of recreation through sports though seems to be quite foreign amongst most people here. It’s mainly because it is difficult to get access to sporting facilities, and at some level people might not be exposed to the very idea of it. This is all the more evident when we see kids in the school next door being forced to do the high jump....they run up to the bar, and pretty much karate kick their way across it...hilarious to watch...but you also realize that no one is taking the time to teach them any technique....and its most probably a yearly activity that they are forced to participate in!

The easiest way to run where we live is to run around the apartment complex that my parents live in. Each loop is about 300 meters. It might sound boring, but it can be fairly entertaining. There is always the odd “aunty” who gives you a thumbs up, and the usual randomness of what people do on their balconies every morning. I always imagine some of the construction workers, security guards, and maids are probably wondering why we take to running so much, especially constantly around the building….like we are doing parikramas around a temple! And then there are all these notions of staying fit, being slim, etc., that must be so foreign, I almost feel like saying it’s such a rich-person thing to think, cause you are constantly over consuming calories that you need to burn, whereas the average Indian who sees us is probably just happy to have 2 or 3 good meals a day, if that. Lots of food for thought as I finish loop 15… - V

Random Photo of the Week


A good example of sustainable development and resource conservation? -A

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Beautiful Shimla

Thanks to some contacts that I made at the EPA, I was invited to attend and speak at the National Conference for Forest Solutions in Shimla, Himachal Pradesh, located in the Western Himalayas. Shimla was the former summer capital of the British Raj, providing a much needed break from the summer heat of Calcutta, as it is located about 7,000 ft above sea level. It still has many buildings that follow the colonial architecture. Along with the sheer beauty of the mountains and forests that sprawl in every direction, Shimla is also great to visit because many of its streets are closed to cars, allowing pedestrians the freedom to roam the streets without having to keep their eyes constantly peeled for dangerous obstacles. Perhaps the only negative aspect of the region is the number of pestering monkeys that create quite a nuisance by stealing tourist’s eyeglasses and cameras, demanding a hearty amount of junk food before returning them back to their rightful owner. (Thankfully I did not fall victim to their tricks). Here are a few photos from my trip:


In case you were wondering, I will add another post with more insight on the conference.

Monday, November 30, 2009

Random Photo of the Week


This roller rink trying hard to be the coolest place to hang out in Shimla. At 3 o'clock on a Wednesday afternoon, you could hear the 80's-style music from at least a block and a half away. - A

Thursday, November 26, 2009

We're Now In Bangalore!

Thanks to the power of intention and a very understanding Boston office, we have packed up and moved from Hubli to Bangalore. The Deshpande Foundation is still supporting our work, but instead of working in the main office in Hubli, we have switched to what many of the other fellows are doing and working for one of DF’s partner NGOs, The Energy and Resources Institute (TERI). TERI is one of the most well-known and respected environmental and energy-focused organizations in India. It became even more well-known in 2007, when the Director of TERI, Dr. R.K. Pachauri, was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize along with Al Gore for his work as the head of the Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change (IPCC).


We are slated to work at TERI for the duration of our Fellowships that end next summer. While working there, Vidya will be conducting a large impact evaluation study of 16 watersheds that were part of a Gov’t of India funded program to improve agricultural productivity and livelihoods in rainfed areas in South India. Adam will be working on a project that assesses the existing and potential renewable energy sources in the state of Kerala (ANERT). Both of these projects fall outside of our ‘expertise’ areas, but that just gives us more opportunities to learn.


The best part about being in Bangalore is actually not the new projects, but that we get to be so close to family! In fact, the TERI office is just a 15 minute walk from Vidya’s parents. With Bangalore’s population nearing 8 million people and traffic jams increasing by the day, there is no doubt that we have the best commute in the city!

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Random Photo of the Week


Sunset over Shimla, Himachal Pradesh -A

We’re Back!!!

It’s been more than two months since our last post and a lot has happened since then. Here’s a brief review of what has transpired in the last couple of months:

- We relocated from Hubli to Bangalore, although we are still working for the Deshpande Foundation (sort of).

- We traveled to the U.S. and back. During our time there, Vidya received her U.S. Citizenship.


- We started working at the Southern Regional Centre of The Energy and Resources Institute (TERI).

- We attended the wedding of the brother of our good friend Ikram, and showed off our Bollywood moves during a choreographed dance routine.


- Adam traveled to Shimla, Himachal Pradesh to attend and present a paper at a conference on climate change and forestry.

Of course, there were a lot of other fun and interesting things that happened during that time, but these are the BIG events. We will be sure to fill you in more with photos and commentary in the upcoming days.

Oh, and in case you were wondering, the Random Photo of the Week will be back too!

Stay tuned…

Monday, September 14, 2009

Random Photo of the Week


Hubli's waste management department at work! - A

Can you find the monkey?

This weekend, we went to Sirsi to meet with researchers from the India Institute of Science (IISc) to hear about their ongoing research on the impacts of climate change on India's forest and about the low-cost technology they are developing at their Centre for Sustainable Technologies. Sirsi is considered a 'base camp' for the Western Ghats, one of the top 20 biodiversity hotspots in the world. The hotel that we stayed at was surrounded by dense forest, and you can see and hear wildlife at all times of the day - including monkeys! Here are a couple of the photos that were taken from our hotel room. Can you find the monkey in the pictures? - A

Monday, August 31, 2009

Friday, August 28, 2009

Ganesha festival shopping plus more

Adam and I went to Bangalore to celebrate the Ganesha festival with my parents. We went shopping to an old market in Ulsoor.

Apart from the shopping, we have added photos of the festival itself. Check out the cool video of my mom making one of Ganesha's favorite sweets. -V


TSA in Hu-bba-alli?!



Check out the shirt my taxi driver was wearing yesterday! He loved the fact that I took his photo...I did enquire where he got it from..."market, madam!" -V

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Finally Getting Out to the Field

Last Friday I had the opportunity to join Dr. SR Hiremath (shown above), the director of Dharwad-based NGO Samaj Parivartana Samudaya (SPS), to check out an ongoing afforestation project on more than 350 acres of land in the southwest portion of the Haveri District (directly south of Hubli-Dharwad). SPS has linked local workers, local leaders, and the Karnataka State Forest Department together to develop this project. Currently there are more than 40 workers from nearby villages who re supervised by local leaders and paid using funds provided by the National Rural Employment Guarantee Act (NREGA)*.

All of the species planted here are native to this region of Karnataka, and all of the seedlings were provided by the State Forest Department. SPS worked with the Forest Department to choose the species and verify that each sapling is at least one year old. Doing so ensures that the trees have a high probability of maturing and thriving in this environment. Dr. Hiremath explained that obtaining these native species from the local nursery was an accomplishment, as the Forest Department generally plants non-indigenous trees like Eucalyptus that is sold directly to the pulp and timber industry. Planting native species also provides more fodder for local livestock and biomass that can be used for firewood.

I found the visit to be very insightful, and was interested to learn how NREGA could be used not only to build local roads and schools, but also for ecological restoration. SPS is active in many of these initiatives, and regularly works with communities to connect their need to work with the organization’s goal of improving the environment. The key, Dr. Hiremath said, is that the locals understand that the citizens know that although NREGA gives them a right to work, it is also their responsibility to demand that the local leaders provide them with the proper work as well.

*NREGA guarantees 100 days of wage employment in a financial year to any rural household whose adult members are willing to participate in unskilled manual work. It has been heralded as important step towards realization of the right to work and arresting out-migration of rural households in search of employment while simultaneously enhancing people’s livelihood on a sustained basis, by developing the economic and social infrastructure in rural areas. Specifically, it aims to generate productive assets, protect the environment, empower rural women, and limit rural-urban migration by addressing chronic poverty, drought, deforestation, soil erosion and other forms of natural resource management.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Swine Flu Mania

Those of you who live in the U.S. probably recall the media frenzy with swine flu (H1N1). It seemed that every time we tuned into the news, there was some story or another about how the flu is spreading and how it could affect us. Eventually, things calmed down and luckily there were relatively few fatalities.

Well, guess what? That same hysteria has hit the mainstream here in India. Every news channel and newspaper is covering it to the max, giving hourly updates on where it has been confirmed and where we are in the national death count (about 30). Every other store has a sign in the window stating, "We Sell Swine Flu Masks," and there are actually people on the street wearing them (although not a majority...yet). Now, I am all about taking precaution and preventing the spread of a global pandemic, but I also think that this country has many more important things to worry about, including the spread of other infections and diseases (note: I made the same claims when I was witnessing this scare in the U.S.).

The swine flu scare has some positive aspects for me, primarily because it is believed to have been brought over from the West. Specifically, the number of beggers, hawkers, and generally curious people that approach me on the street have gone down dramatically. When I get on the bus, people are eager to get up and give me their seat as they move to the opposite side of the bus. Vidya and I even witnessed a woman shout "foreigner" as she pulled her friend to safety as we walked by.

Let us hope that the panic continues without their being anymore casualties, as I rather enjoy my freedom to roam the streets. - A

Monday, August 17, 2009

Random Photo of the Week




Chili's restaurant in Bangalore! - A

Monday, August 10, 2009

The Auto God is reading our blog!

Ever since my rant on having to haggle with autodrivers...there has been a turn of events. We have a found a very nice autodriver (Mr. Sahadev) who likes our price and waits for us outside the gym pretty much every time we've been there. He also asks whenever we skip! (I don't think he's stalking us :)). Moreover, when we wanted to go to the shopping district after the gym he did not argue over the price and asked for what the locals would pay! We have started the process of becoming locals. Too much optimism too soon? I hope not. - V

Sunday, August 9, 2009

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Impressions

Bathrooms in India are notorious for being unclean. Luckily for us the office has a whole bunch of stalls for men and women with Indian and Western toilet options (it's always nice to have choices :)). Furthermore, there is liquid soap and a hand dryer! Yesterday, after I used the loo, I noticed that the two women who typically clean the office were there as well. As they watched me wash my hands they started whispering. One of them walked up to the sink and started imitating me (while the other giggled)...however, then she went on to brushing her teeth with her fingers and washing her face...the whole time smiling at me! It was incredibly cute....it also made me wonder the kinds of impressions we leave on the people here! - V

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

I thought I loved skits....

until I am forced to play the same one everyday with the autodriver! The odds of them getting tired of it before me is highly unlikely....this is how it goes....
Me: Auto!!! Deshpandenagar?
Driver: Yes, please sit.
Me: (Before sitting) How much?
Driver: Rs. 80 ($1.60)
Me: Rs. 25 (50 cents)
Driver: no, no, no....ok...Rs. 50 ($1)?
Me: (looking mad/irritated...) I take this ride everyday, who are you trying to fool. Rs. 25 take it or leave it (and then I pretend to walk away like I have no cares in the world)
Autodriver comes to his senses, whistles, hoots, and hollers to get my attention that the price is right!

What's interesting is that I act out this skit EVERYTIME!!! Please autodriver when I quote a reasonable price, just say yes the first time through and get me where I want to go! - V

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

It's Pronounced Tal-vaalkers!


This weekend we joined a gym called Talwalkers. Yes, any regular American speaking person would pronounce it "Tall Walkers" but we learned during our fitness orientation that this is not the proper way to say it. Whatever you want to call it, it is amazing! The place is huge and has all the newest treadmills, ellipticals, and weights. When we signed up, they even gave us four free massages a piece. You cannot beat that!

We didn't find this place on our own though, and quite frankly, we didn't think that a place like this would exist in Hubli. The credit should go to Ajay Handa, who is the executive director of the Hans hotel, restaurant, and night club that is located right across the street from where the Deshpande Foundation is headquartered. For that tip alone, he will definitely be getting more of our business. Oh, and the food there is pretty good too! - A

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Random Photo of the Week

Where's the Target?

Vid's post about surviving Hubli is spot on. The city is relatively small from a geographical standpoint and conservative in nature (especially compared to western-like Bangalore). Getting around is easy once you get through the routine of haggling over the price of the auto rickshaw or finding the right bus route. But there's still one problem...I still don't know where to go to get anything! Locals tell us that the best (and only) place to go shopping is Koppikar Road, a street at least 5 blocks long with many different shapes and styles of stores. This problem is, there's no real order to the place, which makes it hard when all you want is to buy a couple of new pillows to enhance our capability to sleep in our super noisy guest house (post to come later with audio of the horns outside our window). Here's a quick synopsis of the sequence of events involved in purchasing a couple of $5 pillows...
1. Get on the bus near Deshpande Foundation - tell conductor that we want to go down to the 'old bus stand.' We pay our 4 rupees (~8 cents) each and hang on for the ride.
2. Bus stops short of the old bus stand stop. Because we cannot see the old bus stand, we just assume it is not our stop and stay on the bus.
3. 30 seconds later, bus goes by the old bus stand and we ask driver to stop the bus. He shakes his head and we continue on through the city for another 10 minutes until the bus finally stops again. We've since gone well past where we need to go, so hop off and decide to just walk back.
4. We finally get back to the head of Koppikar Road, around 730pm. As we turn to walk down the street...boom...the power on the entire street goes out!
5. We soon hear the sound of the diesel generators being cranked up and lights start to flicker on in the various storefronts. Scenes like this are quite typical in India, especially because the monsoon rains have been less than normal, thus limiting the amount of hydro power that can be produced this time of year.
6. We continue down the street, and suddenly, "Squish!" Uh-oh, I just stepped into something nice and fresh from some animal or another. Thankfully it will be tracked out before we get home.
7. A few blocks down, we find a home accessory store. It is relatively well lit and full of customers. It looks positive, and luckily for them, the place requires that we remove our footwear before stepping inside.
8. We go up to one of the counters and ask if they have any pillows. To our delight they have a half dozen varieties. We settle on one that is large and not too soft and pay for two of them.
9. Continuing with our luck for the evening, they only have one in the showroom and need to go into the back to get another one. Of course, because the lights are out, they are back there for what seems to be 30 minutes searching for one (I don't think it was really that long), randomly emerging with other-types of pillows that are not the same model (or price).
10. The store manager/owner finally realizes that we have been standing at the counter for what seems to be forever waiting for this pillow and grabs us a couple of chairs. "I rang up another store to get the pillow brought over here via cycle. It should only be another 5 minutes."
11. 15 minutes later, the clerk that sold us the rogue pillow is outside in the dark staring down the street trying to sight the deliveryman. Soon after, she comes back in with a smile, "It's here."
12. The clerk and store owner lead us aside with several apologies. "No problem," we say, "all is forgotten." In the end, we are happy to have what we sought out earlier that evening to find.
13. We leave the store, large pillows in hand, hail down a couple of auto drivers and finally settle on a reasonable price back home for what will no doubt be a great night's sleep. "Hey Vid, I am all about having an adventure," I say, "but tonight all I wanted was to hop in my car and go to Target!"

Never a dull time in Hubli!

Surviving Hubli

Each day I realize that I cannot take for granted however we lived in Bangalore to be how living in Hubli is or will be. There are no meter run autos, we haggle over the price of everything, and culture in general here is quite conservative....coming from Bangalore might just make it worse compared to just showing up from abroad....you come with higher expectations. Needless to say my adjustment here has been harder than Adams'. On the flip side I'm so happy to have Adam, he's been like the yogurt that you need after a spicy meal! ;) And the essence of India still runs thick...people are always willing to help, share, smile, and be curious....seeing kids running through the streets saying "hi...bye!" or the watchman who always smiles with a "Namaskara" is heart warming. - V

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Saying Goodbye

I hate saying goodbye. We have spent the last few months just doing that. I've been trying to understand better what I dislike about it....I guess it's that moments of saying goodbye are so laden with emotions - like my mom cooking us tons of food to survive our first few days in Hubli - there is soo much love in that act, it makes you question why you are leaving! Saying goodbye to family and friends was hard....and then when I showed up in Hubli, I was waiting... waiting for those strings that kept tugging at my heart about working in India to jumpstart!

Having been here for two weeks I have already come to appreciate the way we say goodbye in Kannada (and Tamil) - hogibarthene (poita varain) - I'm leaving and I'll be back. I just feels nicer...it's never a final adieu! - V